Whatever the time or place of a Korean grave, there is always a table and a name plate nearby. The form these take alters through the circumstances but as their purpose is essential, those circumstances can be defined by the relationship between these markers and the grave itself.
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The function of the nameplate is simple to understand. The table on the other hand, fulfils a richer purpose. Whenever the bereaved visits the graveside an offering will be placed at the table. Some objects may be left, while others are used to enact an encounter as if the person was still alive. Two glasses and a bottle are placed. The mourner drinks their share, and pours each glass belonging to the grieved over their grave. In circumstances where the remains are a distance from this table, they will be brought and placed across from those coming to pay their respects.
Every year on memorial day, families will come to visit their relatives. Cemeteries throng with the living, and these little tables are where they meet the ones who have passed away.
It is common across societies for the bereaved to form a continued relationship at graveside but in Korea there is an actual accommodation for it.
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